Letting go of the Goal
What if, instead of focusing on the end result, we concentrated on what we are doing, right here, right now?
I was reading an article on Yoni Massage and in it was reference to our almost pathological fixation on orgasms as the end result of sex. And that in letting go of the goal or orgasms we can increase everyone’s pleasure in the process. We can find greater connection to our sexuality and to our bodies, sensations and each other, by letting go of this goal fixation and enjoying the journey.
I mean, really, isn’t that what so much “self help” is about? Enjoying the journey?
Don’t get me wrong, goals are a great thing. I have goals. I have daily goals and monthly goals and annual goals and life goals. I review my goals, changing as appropriate, reorienting myself as needed, creating sub goals when advantageous. Goals are darned…
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