Harassment and Boundaries

I am a sex-positive Pagan; but I don’t like to be touched without permission. Not hugged, not kissed, not picked up (I’m five feet tall; men love that.) Boundaries are important and you’re right, only if no is respected does yes have any meaning.

Shauna Aura Knight

3481712_xl Technically this is part of my Pagans and Predators series, but in this case, I’m largely not talking about intentional predators. I’m talking about the ambient harassment and physical boundary-pushing that happens at every Pagan event out there, to a certain extent.

It’s worse at some events than at others.

I’m going to describe a few situations I’ve found myself in at Pagan events, and at some science fiction and fantasy conventions, that I would consider to be in violation of my physical boundaries. In other words, harassment, or even the mild side of physical assault.

And at the time, I didn’t say anything. I didn’t speak up. In some of these cases, I didn’t even realize it was harassment until later.

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~ by Sable Aradia on April 18, 2014.

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